How to Have a Super-Intense Squirting Orgasm
Next, use the techniques mentioned above to stimulate the Urethral sponge. Do not focus exclusively on clitoral stimulation as this is unlikely to cause a woman to squirt. To clarify, the fluid released during squirting is different from pee.
These are placed on the ABS plastic handle, making it easier to handle the vibrator. Additionally, the vibrator body is made of silicone, which has the same silky soft touch that makes Lelo vibrators so very fun to touch and feel. Silicone and ABS plastic are non-porous and body-safe, which makes these excellent materials for building sex toys. While the fluid one expels during female ejaculation is not technically pee, it may contain some pee, as the Skene’s are close to the urethral sponge. If you’re stimulating an area near the urethra, it seems realistic to expect you might wind up releasing some urine. Because squirting isn’t caused by a need to go to the toilet.
This one’s exactly what it sounds like—combine oral play with fingering. The pause builds anticipation and makes every stroke more intense when you start again. She probably won’t squirt right now, but she will definitely have an orgasm.
For more stimulation to the front wall of the vagina, lie flat while the penetrative partner remains slightly elevated. Either person can also stimulate the top partner’s clitoris in this position. A person may find it easier to squirt when masturbating, rather than during sex with a partner, because they can focus entirely on their own sensations and adjust accordingly.
That’s why many women fear they are going to pee when in fact it’s a squirting orgasm. Remember though; that communication is key in any sexual encounter. Ask her what feels good and listen—really listen—because sometimes it’s not just about hitting the spot but how you play once you’re there that counts.
Squirting is not a requirement for sexual satisfaction, so approach this experience with curiosity rather than expectation. Understanding that every woman’s body is different will help you enjoy the process without stress. In a loving relationship, the man’s job is to create an erotic context that’s comfortable, relaxed, and arousing enough so the woman can let herself go enough to climax. Additionally, similar to childbirth, there’s also contracting and pushing when trying to create this embellished squirting scene for the camera.
Another interesting thing here is if your partner does not enjoy squirting, you will have a very hard time making her squirt. So, just make it a part of your sexual course, and don’t have any expectations with squirting. A big part of being able to squirt is being relaxed and completely trusting your partner.
So, naysayers be damned, devoting your time to learning how to squirt yourself, or how to make your partner squirt is a noble mission. That said, I always caution against putting pressure on yourself or on your partner to perform squirting (or any other sexual act), because it only works if all parties are relaxed. Also, if you can how to squirt during sex, avoid putting squirting on a pedestal. While some squirters may find their wet ’n wild orgasms enhanced, there is no orgasm hierarchy, and you’re not somehow a better, badder lover if you know how to make a pussy squirt. You’re simply here to learn and enjoy the journey, babes.